Thursday, January 1, 2009
We need to talk..
Question... How do you tell your man you're not satisfied? My last blog made me think about this a little more. How do you tell your man you aren't satisfied with their lovin. What if they are too small or too big, what if they lack stamina, or just plain don't know what they are doing? How do you bring this subject up in a way that won't make them uncomfortable or defensive? I mean ideally you want a situation where both parties are getting everything they want out of the physical aspect of the relationship, but if the sex is lacking something has to be said right? I do believe that sex is a very important aspect of a relationship and if it is lacking it can effect other aspects of the relationship (just as well other aspects can effect the sex). Anyway, how do you have this conversation, is there a best time? best place? what do you say? and what happens next? how do you ensure there won't be any hurt feelings?
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LOL well here it goes:
Now matter how you word it, no matter where you take them, no matter how you smile when you say it, TELLING SOMEONE THEIR SEX IS WACK IS GOING TO BE HURTFUL, OFFENSIVE AND EVERYTHING ELSE NEGATIVE. Whats sad is that instead of them listening for detail and trying to make it better, they will take offense and somehow you will be the slut!
Below are some tips tho:
Too Small: try some new positions (warning: if you tell him this be prepared for him to say something along the lines of your vagina being to big followed by a number of insults that will result in you being a slut)
Too big: Get a doughnut(and not the sweet treat) the doughnut a man puts around his penis to keep from penetrating too deep
Stamina: Wheaties, better diet, different locations (i.e shower, parks, floor)
And for the coup de gra
lacking skills: Just leave it alone if you are past the teaching stage.
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