Wednesday, December 9, 2009

More on Babies

Question...In a marriage, should the decision to keep or get rid of the baby be a joint or decision? Let’s say we're talking about a married couple and the woman gets pregnant. She doesn't want to have kids at the moment, but the man does. Is it right/ok for the woman to get rid of the baby against her husband's wishes? What if after baby number 2 or 3 the woman decides on her own to get her tubes tied without telling her husband? I know it’s a woman's body, but how much of a say does a man get in what happens to his baby (or future babies)?

2 comments:

Mamalicious said...

that is a joint decision, for sure. i'm trying to write why, but there are so many reasons. the whole idea of marriage is partnership, so why would you make such a decision alone?

~Feenix~ said...

Yay me and mama finally agree. When you say I do, it becomes WE DO. And children are a touchy subject. You shouldn't marry someone because she got a fat ass and bop real good or because his dick is long and got money. Your partner should share the same things in common with you. If you want kids and he/she doesn't marriage should not be an option!