Monday, October 20, 2008

YBR-- I wonder if I take you home?

Question... If a girl gives it up early on in a relationship does that make her a roller? So there was a time when getting down too soon made you a freak or a slut, but does that still hold true? I mean today when you have many women completely taking control of their sex life, knowing exactly what they want and how they want it, is it wrong to just get down to business sooner? Many of us remember that song by Lisa Lisa "I wonder if I take you home...would you still be in love?" Well would you? Lets not even get into the "l" word. If a girl gets it in on a first date or even a second date, does it really matter. Would a guy loose some level of respect for her, not take her seriously? Would it still be possible to try and build a functioning relationship afterward? Does it give a negative reflection on her character? And if the old rules do still apply then how soon is too soon. Is their a certain amount of time you should wait before you give up the lovin? a month, 6 weeks, longer? What is proper sexual etiquette?

2 comments:

~Feenix~ said...

First: a roller is not a loose woman. It is a female who gives it up for "rolled" marajuana, or at least that is where the term was coined....

And the only reason a guy would be upset at a female for giving it up too "soon" would be because he was ridiculed by someone about it...

Lesson: keep your mouth closed and stop telling your business. Oh and if she "gave" it up on the first date and you "accepted" that makes you just as much of a slut as it does here...remember that!

~Feenix~ said...

*her...opps!